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How To Attract Men- Do you want the Secrets? |
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So you're shopping, in your not so flattering casuals, and your hair is screwed-up in into a sort of up-do, and you see the guy of your desires. The guy that you have lusted after for sometime. The guy that just doesn't take your other attempts at flirting a subtle hint for him to ask you out, well you now are going to bag him if you follow these steps. So - Do you decide to hide and try and make a dash for it, without him spotting you, because if there's one way you don't want him to see you-it's like this? Or do you TALK to him? You bite the bullet and go and talk to him... Here's how to do it...Firstly, 1. Make eye contact. I know you probably read this all the time, but making eye-contact works! Men are visual creatures, and if they see a pair of eyes glancing at them, they will be interested and will be keen to learn more. The key to eye-contact is to hold a gaze for only a few seconds, glance in his direction, catch his eye-contact back and then look down. If you feeling brave glance and smile at him, be very careful though, you must remember- only a couple of seconds otherwise you will seem like a crazed women smiling and staring at him madly. 2. Talk to him. If the eye-contact went well- then talk to him. Say something like "hi, do I know you?" or make a comment on something happening in the shop, light-heartedly, as if it is a joke. Say something that will ensure the two of you talk, within reason of course- don't just nervously blurt out the first thing that comes to your head! 3. Read the body language. So if all is going well you both will be conversing smoothly at this point, now is where you observe his body language, read into how he is feeling you, whilst also maybe helping it along. You ask how? Well, people who like each other naturally mimic each others body language and gestures, without them realizing, for example; One of you crosses a leg then though other person might, without realizing you are actually creating a spark and mutual bond-it is called non-verbal leakage. Read the movements, it will help you read how he is feeling. And if you want to help it along a little bit, mimic his movements, subtlety of course, but this will un-subconsciously tell him you have a connection! 4. Ask questions. This is fairly easy, because you like him. You will have many questions you want answering, remember the important ones; like do have a girlfriend? -hopefully he won't if he is talking to you! 5. Touch him. As you both speak, touch him. Touch his hand or his arm; keep the touches brief though, see if he touches you back. This is very good way to see if he likes you! If he touches you back- you're in girl! 6. Leave. Yep, leave now, I know it sounds childish, but it's the best thing you can do. Why? Because men love the chase, it's in there genes, men love to chase there desires, and leaving early will show him that you are an elusive creature that has to be somewhere else and has better things to do. The message he gets- you are desirable, hot and he better act quick before someone else whisks you off your feet! My last and final tip; this will sound obvious...but you need to do it from now on... ...Dress to impress on every occasion! I'm not proposing that you go for a walk in the park dressed up in the nines-wear what ever is appropriate for the occasion but wear it with style! Always be smart and well groomed. This will create a good impression on men and more importantly will make you feel confident! So if you follow these steps, you WILL be scooped off your feet before you know it - by HIM, the one that you desire!
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