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With all sexual activities, safety should always be the first thing on
the list. This holds true for Bondage as well. If you are looking to
engage in bondage and have some concerns, read the guidelines and
safe practices associated with bondage. It could make the difference
between a night of sexual indulgence or a night of utter fright and
pain.
Flogging
Spanking your partner can be fun and erotic for the both of you. It
is total turn on for some people to spank their partners, however,
there are some general rules that you should consider before
spanking.
When spanking you need know your boundaries. Communicate with your
partner and find out what she likes and dislikes, if this is your
first time start off light, then gradually make the strikes more
intense. This will help the two of you know each others limitations,
and make the spankings more enjoyable.
Make sure you incorporate a safe word, this way if the play goes to
far, the word is said and the action is to stop. This is very
important, especially when try new things.
Never strike directly on the bone of your partner. This is extremely
painful. Also, other areas that should never be spanked are the neck
and the lower back. It is a good idea not to strike behind the knees
either. There are main blood arteries there that could be damaged.
Make sure any of the sexual aids that you will be using for the
spankings meet both you and your partners approval. It is best whey
you both pick out the toys, and not to just spring it up on your
partner. They may not like it, and it would have been just a waist
of money.
Practice with your sex toys, strike yourself with it and see how it
feels, remember the intensity of the strike so you know how hard to
strike for the same result. Of course, everyone's pain threshold is
different, so you still need to proceed with caution in this area.
Just make sure you know the toy and how to use it before bringing it
into play.
Restraining
Restraining is fun, there is nothing more exhilarating than being
tied up and having your partner have his or her way with you. Your
body can reach a state of totally bliss when their partner is
enjoying every inch of their partners body and they can't do a thing
about it. Know this one should keep some common guidelines in their
minds so that the restrained isn't at any risks.
Make sure you NEVER, EVER leave your restrained partner unattended
for any length of time. You never know what can happen, and believe
me anything and everything can happen the moment you thought that it
couldn't. Fires, burglaries, and good ole Mother Nature, has a way
of showing their ugly heads when you least expected it.
Make sure your partner is restraint in a comfortable and safe place.
Let your partner know that something doesn't feel right, remember
you are both here for each others PLEASURE'S if one of you is not
enjoying something, the pleasure part goes away until it is fixed.
A very important aspect of restraining is to make sure that the
restraints are not to tight or restricting PROPER air flow. You want
the restraints secure, but not so secure that you are restricting
the ability to breathe or cutting off blood circulation. Never tie
anything around the neck or genitals, and take caution when tying
around the wrist and ankles. Tying has the chance of tightening up
during play, so periodically check the restraints and make sure they
are not causing problems.
As with flogging, make sure the two of you have safe words, so that
if it gets out of hand, the word is said and the action stops
immediately. Plus employ time limits, you don't want to be tied up
for more than you can handle. Usually no more than an hour in any
given position, and if it is a new position make sure you take it
easy the first couple of times.
Communicate with your partner, and find out what they are enjoying,
what they are not enjoying. This is as much for them as it is for
you, so know what each others expectations are before and during
play, and always know each others limitations, if you are unsure of
what each others limitations are take it slow and find out.
This is supposed to be enjoyable for both parties involved. So know
what each other likes and dislikes, what your expectations are, and
make it safe and risk free. Doing this will help ensure that you
will get the most out of your bondage experiences. |
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